Dharma Talks

Koans and questions, impossible to keep perfectly, the Bodhisattva Vows are not a project and do not give us an ego boost. Rather, they offer us a life of moving from “yes,” responsive rather than reactive, rooted in belonging and freedom.

As he is dying, the Buddha invites his followers to make the teachings our true refuge. Contemplating our own mortality, we ask: What is unfinished? What do we fear? When we release our material and ego attachments, the dying process is an invitation to a final stage of growth and liberation.

How do we best support friends and family members in deep distress? Practice teaches us a love that is not based upon patching up the fragile ego. Practice teaches us to have faith in another’s Buddha nature, to embrace the moment without having to fix anything.

Seido reflects on the meaning of the beloved community. As we gather, over and over, anchored in our common intent to practice, the one and the many are in constant dialogue.

The fourth Grave Precept, “Do not speak dishonestly—communicate truthfully,” is endlessly subtle. Often, we get drawn into small untruths and social niceties as a way of fitting into a group. Conversely, we sometimes insist on aggressively “speaking my truth” regardless of its effect on others. Can we be truthful, even with ourselves? Can we cultivate deep listening and loving speech in service of our interconnectedness?